FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Below you will find my general instructions and rules regarding dominatrix and fetish sessions. Please read this before applying for a session with Me.
WHAT CAN I DO WITH YOU AND WHERE?
W/we agree upon in advance before our meeting what it will entail. I don't offer sex services as I focus purely on professional domination. You can find more detailed service descriptions here and here. When you apply for a session please fill out the form accurately regarding your fantasies so that I can take them into account when planning the session.
I regularly travel around Finland. I will also be happy to travel to you at your expense.
HOW DO I PREPARE FOR OUR MEETING?
I expect you to be clean, polite and courteous. I prepare myself carefully for our session and I appreciate your good smell and cleanliness. You don't have to shave your hair because of Me unless you want to do it yourself.
It's okay if you're a little nervous - it's just lovely and nerve-tickling! Remember that you can only make a first impression once. I will not meet you if you are clearly under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
AM I ALLOWED TO APPROACH YOU IN OUR FREE TIME?
I keep my private life and its relationships separate from My customer relationships. This also means that you cannot ask Me to be your partner or on a date through this page or in the session.
However, if you see Me in public, feel free to say hello and I'll probably do the same myself. I value gentlemanliness, polite and cheerful behavior - this is how you keep Me happy and cheerful and I will continue to like you!
ARE YOU DOING THIS VOLUNTARILY?
Yes. I am my own Mistress. I am responsible for My actions only to Myself - and of course to you. No one controls My sexual or financial activities but Myself.
I have been active in the kinky community since 2017. My sexuality and expressing it is an integral part of My life whether I worked as an entrepreneur in this field or not. I feel great enthusiasm and satisfaction in that I have now taken the next natural step in this area of My life.
ARE YOU A SO CALLED "SUGAR BABY"?
No. My freedom is of absolute value to Me and My affection cannot be bought. I keep My bodily and emotional autonomy to Myself. In this way I can give my best in our meetings and I never rush to complete the session or my presence in it.
I am regularly offered a sugar daddy arrangement. I politely refuse these offers because the power structure and availability requirement in them does not suit My own personality.
YOUR PRICES SEEM HIGH. I DON'T WANT TO PAY THAT MUCH.
My price list is My guarantee of respect and safety and it's meant to weed applicants out. I want to be respected for My presence and My time. I get dozens of messages and I don't want just anyone knocking on My door.
Some people save money for a luxurious massage, some for a staycation, some for e.g. opera tickets. With Me you get an experience, not a necessity such as gasoline or food. My price list reflects this.
IT'S MY FIRST TIME VISITING A DOMME. I'M NERVOUS.
Welcome, especially to you! I'm happy to show you what the world of fetishes is like and how submission can be enjoyed without the Domina being menacing and aggressive - unless that's exactly what turns you on.
O/our meeting is a great and safe option if you are just getting to know the world of BDSM. O/our moments together will proceed as fast or as slow as you wish and feels good to you. We always use safe words.
I MET YOU AND I WANT TO MEET YOU AGAIN. CAN I BE YOUR REGULAR SLAVE?
Long relationships are great! Having a session with a familiar person is often a more intimate experience and the uncertainty dissipates quickly.
During O/our long relationship you will also learn something new about yourself. Maybe you'll find a new side of yourself - you'll find that you like something you didn't think about before, or maybe you have a life situation where it might be difficult to realize your sexuality otherwise. You can always come back to Me when you feel like it - even after a long time!
I HAVE A WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND AT HOME. CAN I TRUST YOU?
What happens between U/us stays between U/us - I won't post or share anything anywhere. Privacy, both Mine and My guest's, is the number one priority for Me.
My guests are unique and My principle is that I do not ask about your private life situation or background and I do not judge them. You can be at my mercy without worry - the only channel through which others can get information about O/our moments together is you, if you so decide.
I BELONG TO THE LGBTIQ+ OR A GENDER MINORITY. HOW DO YOU RELATE TO US?
Welcome, especially to you! With Me you are safe and you can come to Me exactly as you are, regardless of gender, age, skin color or body.
I myself am pansexual and My company is a safe option for you if, for example, you want to experience power play between women in a session.
I HAVE A DISABILITY. HOW DOES THIS WORK? MAY I STILL COME TO SEE YOU?
Thank you for your trust - it is important to Me! If you have, for example, mobility restrictions or illnesses that I need to take into account, please tell Me about them before we meet. I welcome anybody that has been in an accident or has a disability - you are welcome at My place regardless of your body.
I WOULD LIKE TO REMEMBER YOU WITH A SMALL GIFT.
I don't expect gifts when W/we meet - they're just a lovely surprise! If you want to give Me a gift that really puts a smile on My face, you can do it on My homepage. There you can find My wish list - what I am wanting right now as well as My Paypal tip button. You can also bring your gift to O/our meeting and get to personally see a happy smile spread across My face!